2021.12.06 12:38 Agitated-Ad-8058 The Vaccination is Ruining my Family
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I (31F) am currently caught in between something and not sure what to do.
My mom (53F) and my dad (51m) had me young and were never married, so I was raised my by grandparents (my moms parents) (70s/m/f), though my parents and my dads family remained a big part of my life growing up. I currently live next door to my grandparents on my moms side. My mom lives down the street and my dad lives out of state.
My mom and dads families couldn’t be more polar opposites and that includes their attitude toward the vaccine. My entire moms side of the family has chosen not to take the vaccine. As such, my entire dads side of the family has.
I’ve chosen not to take it and my dads side is not reacting well. Whenever I talk with my dads parents, they always urge me to get the vaccine so I can join them physically in activities like dinner, travel, etc. which we did prior to COVID.
I know it’s coming from a place of concern but it makes me uncomfortable because I wish they would respect my decision as an adult. I miss being able to do things together but I am okay with “virtual” visits (phone, FaceTime, etc.) and during the summer they allow me to come over and we eat outside.
My dad, who recently recovered from COVID and is fully vaccinated, has been MUCH pushier about my choice and essentially told me that if my moms parents catch COVID and I’m not vaccinated, they will not survive and it will be my fault. Even before he got COVID, he would also text me regularly to push and shame me towards getting the shot, again, not respecting my decision.
His comments upset me so I told my moms parents what he said and they said they are confident in their decision to not get vaxxed and if they catch it, it could be from anywhere - the grocery store, a family gathering, etc. as opposed to directly my fault and they are okay with that risk.
Another thing my dad does to coerce me towards the vaccine is that he throws the chicken pox and HPV in my face - my moms side wouldn’t allow me to have either vaccines at ages 9 or 16. I had chicken pox as a kid and currently have the HPV strain that can cause cervical cancer but again, I live with that fact.
My only defense towards my dad was that it wasn’t fair of him to judge me for medical decisions I wasn’t old enough to make.
One more thing - when I was old enough to apply to college, my parents had a huge fight about me taking out a federal student loan, so to get his way, my dad agreed to pay it back and had made good on his promise. I have $3k left and honestly, I’m ready to just take over the payments so my dad can’t use it was leverage.
How can I assert my decision to be unvaccinated without disappointing either side of my family?
TLDR: my dad is pro vaxx, my mom is anti vaxx, ive chosen to not get the covid vaxx and it’s causing a rift in my family.
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2021.12.06 12:38 RetiredFart42 I got three ferments going on at the same time.!
Kim chi with extra hot pepper paste added in.
A hot pepper ferment with pineapple, habaneros, thai dragon, and some roasted red sweet bell peppers.
A smaller ferment (quart size mason jar) of some cherry peppers and mango.
THEY ALL SMELL INCREDIBLE !! (I can smell the outgassing still going on without opening them). I will be cracking open the kim chi in one week. Then later? the others. Total time for each of my ferments is about a month.
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2021.12.06 12:38 factorialite NBA Week 7 Donuts
By Minutes: James Bouknight (18 minutes) By Attempts: James Bouknight (7 FGA)
Bouknight’s donut legacy is leaking into other threads at this point:
It is somewhat astounding that a 1st-round pick isn’t getting more minutes than 1 per game, but there’s an easy answer. He’s spent most of his season in the G-League, where he is averaging (get this) 25/7/4/2. James puts up 20 shots a night there, which is probably more useful for his long-term development than getting 6 minutes for the Hornets.
3 Point Field Goals:
By Minutes: Rudy Gobert (734 minutes) By Attempts: 4 players (6 attempts)
Adebayo is falling a bit off the pace, minutes-wise. It’s a two horse race between Gobert and Capela and Gobert is probably (-180) or so to get there.
Cameron Thomas decided he didn’t want to be anywhere near this list. Last week, he attempted TWENTY tracys, bottoming 5 of them. While a 17.9% 3P% isn’t anything to write home about, guess what? It isn’t 0%. Congratulations, Cameron.
By Minutes: Rajon Rondo (208 minutes) By Attempts: Josh Green, Ish Wainwright (2 attempt)
If Rondo destroyed a Bavarian meat cart, would be the Wurst Mutilator?
I apologize for the horrible Idiocracy reference.
Anyways, Rondo logged about 10 minutes last week, and was in no danger of making a free throw. Keep it up, fella!
Green, Wainwright, and Miye Oni are in the elite fraternity of NBA players to attempt a free throw without making one this season. They meet on Wednesdays in the Austin, TX YMCA. They bring churros. It’s a good time.
Missed Field Goals (min attempts 1):
By Minutes: Jericho Sims (54 minutes) (NO CHANGE) By Attempts: Nathan Knight (4 attempts)
The battle of Jericho rages on. He didn’t play last week (Illness), but I’d like to share this little diddy he did against Atlanta in his last game this year so far:
As a kid growing up in the “greater Chicago area,” I reflexively dislike the Knicks. That said, it pains me to admit that they a) have some of the tightest unis in the game and b) have a really fun team these days.
Nathan Knight missed two of this four attempts last week. Knightfall has come to NBA Donuts.
Missed Three Pointers (min attempts 1):
By Minutes: Willy Hernangomez (168 minutes, 2 attempt) By Attempts: Anthony Gill, Davon Reed (3 attempt)
Willy, very possibly aware of this article, did not shoot a 3 in his 7 minutes this week. Anthony Gill and Davon Reed both push ahead of him in attempts; only 7 players in the NBA qualify for this stat.
Missed Free Throws (min attempts 1):
By Minutes: Robert Covington (633 minutes, 3 attempts) By Attempts: Jeremy Lamb (28 attempts)
Luke Kennard CAN be stopped. Unfortunately, NBA.com doesn’t provide video of each FT attempt (because it was be insane for them to do so). I’m going to assume the ball came to a rest on the heel of the hoop. Covington didn’t attempt a free throw last week and logged a serious number of minutes.
By attempts, Lamb is slaughtering the competition. He is ahead of #2 (Ntilikina) and #3 (Goran Dragic) combined.
By Minutes: Trey Burke (141 minutes)
At this point, I have to assume Burke is just making sure he gets back on transition defense. Let me know, Mavericks fans. This is getting a little weird.
By Minutes: Jahmi’us Ramsey (46 minutes)
Ramsey adds 2 minutes to his ledger. Don’t think he’ll make it to 60 minutes, though. Just hard to do.
By Minutes: Jericho Sims (56 minutes)
Zeke Nnaji had one assist in his last 62 minutes, and let’s be honest, it counts but it only barely counts.
The sort of pass you absolutely have to make, but credit to Zeke, he made it. Nnaji still has the lowest assist rate in the league (min. 100 minutes played), but despite that, he’s a promising young player. I’m hard on him because I care.
Sims becomes a double donut this week, but I’m sure he’d rather have the single.
By Minutes: Robin Lopez (121 minutes)
Pritchard got in just under the wire!!! The scenario: last game of the week for Boston. 5:38 remaining in the fourth quarter. Celts up 23. Fast break for the Blazers…
Ladies and gentlemen, isn’t this a block? I’m genuinely flabbergasted at what to do here. I’ve watched this video like it is the Zapruder film. There is a Blazer down low, but he isn’t looked at by Blevins. Blevins clearly goes up with the ball, and Pritchard pokes it out (against the glass, even), and is credited with a steal. I guess you can charitably call it a steal since it would be a very early block (the ball is barely above Blevins’ head when Payton gets his hand on it), but still, this is about as corner a case as it comes.
Robin Lopez is the new leader, but I wouldn’t expect him to last much longer in the top spot.
By Minutes: Immanuel Quickley (477 minutes)
Quickley indeed picked up some playing time, and he spent approximately 0 minutes of it hunting blocks.
By Minutes: KZ Okpala (70 minutes)
Aldama finally gave up the ghost, but KZ here pushed the turnover lead up to 70 minutes anyway. The bad news? He’s shooting 26.3% from the field.
By Minutes: Tacko Fall, Jalen Johnson (19 minutes)
Can I just say how weird it is that Jalen Rose, of all people, became the reason that the name “Jalen” is so popular? Guess you have to give the people what they want and what they wanted was “Jalen.”
Club Trillion Leader:
Robert Woodard (3 minutes, no FGA/FTA/REB/AST/STL/BLK/TOV/PF) (NO CHANGE)
What have we learned?
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